Therapy offers a safe, confidential, non-judgmental space to talk about any troubling aspect of sex, sexuality or gender identity.
Sex forms a focal point of many powerful forces in human life. While we can surf the web and get any amount of information on virtually any aspect of sexuality, the topics of sex and intimacy continue to be difficult for many to talk about or resolve by themselves.
Sexual issues may well be intertwined with emotional, psychological, relational, cultural or medical issues. For this reason, your therapist is likely to take a holistic approach, viewing any particular issue as an aspect of your overall wellbeing.
The wide range of sexual issues can be broadly categorised in to three areas: sexual difficulties, porn use & problematic behaviors, sexuality & gender identity.
At some point in life, most people experience some sexual issues. Sometimes these will persist and become distressing. Sometimes these are best resolved in individual therapy, sometimes as a couple, sometimes as a combination of these. It is not uncommon for couples to come in together for a few sessions then one or both partners decide to do some individual work (or vice versa). More common issues include:
The internet and mobile phone apps have created wide availability and diversity of pornography and sexual opportunities providing an environment where pornography and problematic sexual behaviours are an increasing concern for many men and women of all ages, both in and out of relationships.
While attitudes to sexuality and gender identity have changed considerably over the past few decades, exploring these areas can still be a confusing process. These issues can be especially difficult for those who discover their sexuality or gender identity later in life, when they are in a relationship or have been brought up with particular family, religious or cultural beliefs.
Any of our therapists will accept you just as you are: straight, gay, lesbian, bisexual, asexual, takatapui, fa'afafine, male, female, non-binary, gender-fluid, intersex, transgender, transsexual or curious. Therapy provides a safe space for you to explore your thoughts and feelings and support you on your journey.